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Old 05-05-2015, 10:09 AM   #39
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I don't see why you are so scared... if you like her, go for it. Be direct with your intentions - only "friendzoned" people I know (including myself back in my single days) were in there because they beat around the bush.

If it doesn't work, find a new friend. All this BS about "losing your friend'... which would you rather lose, a potential girlfriend or even life partner or a friend? Seems pretty obvious to me. It all comes down to what you value more. Personally I value a female who can be BOTH my best friend and my gf, which seems to me is what you have here.

Hate to say it, but 6 years of never seeing your "S.O" doesn't make it a relationship. I am not so sure that it's "homewrecking" when there was never a home to begin with.
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