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I've been in the same situation.
It's not up to you to decide what A does to #1 and #2, only A can pull the trigger and I would not put the onus on myself. I will simply advise to A that what he's/she's doing is not quite acceptable to play the feelings of both #1 and #2.
I agree with the post above with regards to approaching A. In telling A, you have at least done something; no one can fault you for trying to point the moral compass in the correct direction. They are adults, they can make their own decisions.
Personally, I'd hate to have blame put on me for talking to someone's love interest for trying to do the right thing and further complicating the love triangle with your input.. You would be in a no-win situation for you at that point.
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