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Originally Posted by melloman
Tell A to stop fucking around, you need to nicely put it that she needs to choose between #1 or #2.. And then let them know that, because #2 is willing to RELOCATE just for someone.. and that almost always ends badly.
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He already said that A will swoon when it comes to topics about #2.
There really is no solution that will favor them equally at this point, especially when you're a person not involved.
However, if you do decide to get involve there are a one thing you should figure out first.
How good of a friend are you between A, #1, and #2? Which friendship do you cherish the most and not want to destroy? Once you've figure this out, go inform that friend.
If it's A, just advise him to stop doing what he's doing and come clean with it.
If it's #1, inform her about #2.
If it's #2, tell her not to relocate for A because he already has a SO.
If all 3 friendship are equal to you, stay the fuck out. Helping any 1 of the 3, will leave the other 2 thinking that you're just a rat bastard because once they know that you knew about this all along, you're no innocent than the player himself.