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Originally Posted by R1CED`
1st meet up is your typical after work drinks affair, they'd be silly if they think I will try to impress anyone I don't know very well with wine & dine.
thanks for the warning though...most seem pretty real so far. didn't watch that video yet but i'd presume it's similar to the barney one in HIMYM.
Mr. Chin, I never attempted at randoms but it wouldn't hurt to learn. You feel it's a disaster because noob or because many women don't like guys browsing? I personally feel it's okay if you're not in a relationship yet and it shouldn't be a surprise if we clicked through a dating site. I'm just not sure if I should be straight forward about it on dates and if not, what to tactifully say to keep options open?
I like tapioca's approach but I'm open to other approaches/reasoning.
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That's the thing about the Vancouver scene (especially Asians). You might feel okay with it but to them, you'll just come off as a player. But I guess if you can keep it a secret or come to a mutual understanding, there will nothing to worry about.
For me, I can quickly distinguish, usually through the first several hours, if I will like the girl or not. I'm pretty sure everyone can. It's either a yes or no for me, nothing in between.