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Originally Posted by GS8

Spoiler!

Been single for 8 years and still no desire to commit. I think I move too fast for people to catch up. Have had plenty of flings but no desire (from either of us) to move forward. As I age, I find myself fragmenting from the rest of the social and cultural norms.

But 2015 has been one of the most active years of my life (positive for once). New changes, new revelations, new frontiers of exploration. Maybe one day, I'll find someone to journey with but for now, I'm okay with traveling solo. I'll always have a pen, paper and a mirror to remind me of who I am.

Hey I'm just trailing at 7. and it's really been happier times single than dating.

Honestly, if you can be happy as a single, then you're probably better in that position. Those who can grow as an individual and love themselves, are those who are great in relationships. They go into a relationship wanting to be there instead of feeling the need to fill a void.