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Ok I have a srs question for you all.
Do you think it's worth dating outside your race? For example for me, as a south-asian brown-skinned male I have come to learn that we are basically near the bottom of the dating hierarchy :/
But for me, personally, I don't go for girls based on their race (that is an afterthought, if anything) I usually try to date girls I click with and am attracted to (physical/personality/ambition/etc.). Living in a part of town where there are many east asian people has led me to have around my social circle of ~80% east asian friends. This naturally leads me to date in these social circles (outside my race).
As a 20 y/o my parents are starting to pressure me about marriage, and they say they will basically not talk to me anymore if I marry outside my race.
I guess my question to you all is, is it worth it to date/marry outside your race? It is probably 100x harder to date outside my race for me, and I don't know how well it works out (east asian and south asian cultures are different). If I bring home an asian/white/whatever race gf, my parents will not take it very well but if it doesn't work out with her I will be at a loss for both sides.
The problem is, is that my culture does not allow dating so openly and as a result the females are secluded from the males. So I don't know many girls of my own race (mostly guys).
I don't understand, I see people dating outside their race but rarely do they get married. It seems that it is just something that is done for fun? The most common interracial couple I have seen is white/asian, or maybe I need to get out more.
Any input is appreciated, I am confused
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