[Inaii]

No one should be making anyone choose. I've had 2 people in my life do that and both are no longer a part of it. One asked me to choose him (my bf at the time) or my best friend (who didn't like him, which turned out to be something I should have listened to earlier) and the other was the best friend from the earlier ultimatum trying to make me choose between her and the guy I was seeing at the time. I ended up being with that guy for 7 years and about a year into the relationship I quit being friends with her. Couldn't handle the animosity she had for him (for absolutely no reason either).

Ultimatums are stupid and I have no idea why anyone tries to use them.