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Originally Posted by tiger_handheld
girls i'm interested in at work/school: no longer in school / work is all older people/married.
girls at clubs/parties: group of friends are not clubbing type. all clubbing chicks can't be trashy af right?
girls at volunteer: where?
girls who're attracted to me: not attracted to them
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You set up a whole bunch of dead ends for yourself.
It's like nope, can't hook up with work/school female acquaintances if they're not available/married. - Well, talk to them anyways and just be friendly with them and not care whether they are available or not.
Nope, can't do with clubbing and trying to hook up there. - Then don't go club or party, people in this thread are telling you to JOIN interest clubs. Book club or something you are genuinely interested in and can put out an opinion. Don't join a group if you have no interest in and expect a club with the highest female to male ratio. You end up looking like a fool when you can't contribute and they will know your intentions.
Nope, won't volunteer unless there's a chance to hook up. - Like above, I wouldn't volunteer just to try and get hooked up. They see right through that if you aren't genuinely into charity work. You end up looking like a creep.
Nope, I'm not gonna try to do anything with girls i'm not even attracted to. - Why not get to know them a bit more? At the very least, talking with them would improve your social ability and game.
Be thoughtful and generous around people that you care about and surround yourself with people that care about you. If they see that you are single, well-established they'd want to set you up with an opportunity to meet someone.
Be genu-wine.
I hooked up with a girl at a very bad time when she was leaving. I met her at a restaurant she worked at an was a student on a working vacation from Seoul. I miss her a lot.
It was my favourite restaurant and I ate there frequently before she even started working there. I order the same thing every time I go. I like the restaurant so far as to travel out of my way while I was in Tokyo to eat at the parent restaurant and I shared pictures with her and she was so excited to see them. Long story short, she recognized a pattern and she starting talking to me and I brought something back for the entire restaurant staff because I loved the place. I'm friends with all the staff there. You show sincerity and a genuine regard for something, make it
habitual and someone will recognize it.