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Originally Posted by stewie
Been single for almost a year now.
I work with 99% men, and the females that are there that I talk to are the ones who are in their 50's. I've yet to try tinder, but I did end up signing up to plentyoffish in November.
So far, it's decent. But...it's also a major let down as every woman I've met so far flat out lies about themselves. They look great on paper, but meeting them is the complete opposite. Their photos are 5 years old with a thin body, but I end up meeting a chubby gal. I've been meeting at least 1 a week since I signed up, but each one is the same. Boring, can't contribute to a conversation, and makes me wonder how they could go from being awesome on paper, awesome at texting, meet up....and I might as well be having a conversation with myself. I've got a list of names in my phone contact list now under the names Ignore - Maria POF, Ignore - Jess POF, etc etc etc. Weeks will go by and I'll get a random message from someone, so at least this way I know who it is and not to reply.
It's almost impossible to find a decent looking girl who's not broke, has a car, a career, and isn't as needy as a puppy.
I wish I could get my friends to set me up with their wives/girlfriends friends...but they're all in long term relationships/married.
I'm hoping for the best this year!
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Yeah, POF has been a waste of time for me too. All the girls profile that says "ask me if you're interested", when I send a message, no replies. The ones that replies can't even carry a conversation.
This chubby chick messages me asking how my weekend is so far? I replied describing it so and ask, "yours?" She returns with "it's good". WTF?
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Originally Posted by k20a
Tell me about rusty lol, just got out of a 8.5 year relationship.  |
This is the shit that fucking makes me don't want to be in a relationship. My buddy just got out of a 10 year. Started when he was 18 and missed his party life. Now he's going off partying, drugs, tattoos, etc.
On the bright side, at least they didn't get married yet before deciding to end it. But shit...
I could imagine after so long dating one person, you're accustomed to that style of intimacy that it will be so hard to adapt to a new one.