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Old 02-01-2016, 10:50 PM   #70
Tapioca
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At the end of the day, it's not really that complicated.

Put in a bit of effort into your appearance, ask good questions, and figure out where the women you want to meet are. If you want a career woman with intelligence, where is she going to be? Probably not at the bar. She may, however, be at social events catering to people who work in her industry or at social events for the industry she wants to work in.

A set of wheels is important to a certain extent, but most women don't care about what you've done to the engine, or the amount you've stanced the car. Women care about how well you take care of the car. If your car smells and hasn't been cleaned in months, then that's likely a reflection of how you are in other areas of your life. I drove an old Acura Integra for 10 years, but most women I dated didn't care that it didn't run 13 second quarter miles. I always kept it clean and I paid particular attention its the cleanliness before I took someone new out on a date. Women loved my old BMW E30 because it was clear when they saw it and sat in it that I took care of it.

Paying attention to the details helps. Make sure your clothing fits you. When you communicate, whether in person or by text, use full sentences and proper grammar. If you live on your own, have some food in the fridge and a couple of bottles of decent table wine in your cabinet. Make sure your place doesn't smell bad. Make your bed and clean your sheets. Women don't want to spend time with schlubs or slobs. Considering the shortened attention spans these days, details matter more than ever.

Again, it's not that complicated.
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