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Originally Posted by mr_chin
Yeah, POF has been a waste of time for me too. All the girls profile that says "ask me if you're interested", when I send a message, no replies. The ones that replies can't even carry a conversation.
This chubby chick messages me asking how my weekend is so far? I replied describing it so and ask, "yours?" She returns with "it's good". WTF?
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Gotta be specific man. I clearly state that any conversation initiated by a woman will not be replied to if all they say is some generic variation of hey, hi, hows it going, how was your weekend, whats up, etc. Put some thought into it or don't message me at all. I actually rarely send out initial messages, but my profile is quite descriptive and long, and most messages start off the same by saying that reading it was a breath of fresh air after going through 100 other guys profiles saying "will fill out later" or "I don't know what to write, just message me". Works great on my end, but generally after a few messages I give up. They're either horrible conversationalists or they're just boring as fuck and meeting them would probably make me want to punch them haha.
It's not that POF doesn't work, its just not panning out for me so well at the moment haha. I'll give it time though, patience is virtue hah