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Originally Posted by 6793026
I agree with this a lot. However, we can't even get people to read someone's online profile let alone going on 3 dates.
I've seen people walk out after coffee because he/she don't seen any chemistry. Guess some people just know there will never ever be chemistry and might as well cut losses? I have to respect that.
I've always been the type to give it 3-4 dates. Smart ones know they will be in friend zoned and you know what, I've been setup on multiple dates which turned out to be great referrals, great lays and great gfs because of that one chick who I have no chemistry with.
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If there's chemistry, I'll know it within 15 minutes. If not, I'll keep it to what it is, an initial meeting...and interview if want to call it that. No more than 30-45 minutes, but if things are going great, we'll stay longer. I was with the cat eater for 1 beer, which led to more, which led to almost 3 1/2 hours of us talking and laughing (she kept saying "lets have another"). For what you said about reading the online profiles...I find myself deleting a lot of messages. If they took the time to read my profile they'd see what it says at the bottom and they'd say more than "hi" "whats up" "how was your weekend". straight to the garbage bin for those.