Baxter of California hard crème pomade
had a sample of it, never used it, but took it with me when I went on vacation, and loved it! bought a bottle
you've got to massage it into your hand, quite well, at first else you'll get clumps of product in your hair, once it's worked in your hair the hold is great, and you don't notice it, holds all day, and washes out with ease
their clay pomade seems to be more popular though
I don't normally use hair products (not since high school), so I can't exactly compare it with anything else nor do I know how it stacks up against other products