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Originally Posted by cruz-in
it seems like everybody is forgetting about one thing. Naturally having a good time.
regardless on where you bring him/her or how you get them there, if you guys click, its worth your time. also, If he or she has the time to judge you on where you brought them, then you have something else on your hands.
i brought a girl ( which is now my gf ) to timmy's and now we look back and laugh about it,. not about the place, but the fact that i wore the tightest fucken shirt ever.
Chemistry, can you see it between you too?
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^ This.
Here are two different ways of thinking about it. Again, online dating is a numbers game.. the more you talk to, the better idea you get.
We'll use my first date as a benchmark with my boyfriend.
Cost wise: $15 max for food, gas.
If I was a shallow and high maintenance girl, then yeah - that doesn't sound super appealing.
Effort: Picked me up, took me to japadog, took me to stanley park, went for a cruise
Knowing that I had this to look forward to in the week and this dude planned out things that he thought I would enjoy and opportunities for us to just talk and get to know each other. He even made a balloon saying 'you aite' (cause it was around valentines day).
Rad. It wasn't crazy expensive. But it was unique.
My best advice when it comes to GENERAL dating in 2016 for men? after a long week of work, it's nice to know you have something to look forward to at the end of the week, whether it's simple or big. Don't wait to tell a girl about plans until the day of. It's pretty cool to know someone's thinking about you.
My best advice for men for ONLINE dating in 2016? You want to make an impression? Show your family values, show how engaging you can be, go the old-school route. Girls are now going to be used to guys doing disappearing act (or ghosting), FWB, fuck buddies, guys who are overall not-so-bueno.
You diggin' a girl for the long haul? Go the old-school way. Impressionable. Try to be someone important to her. Try to be her best friend. Again, do it old school and get that chemistry and keep your wee wee in your pants for as long as you can.