^^ Everyone has different life goals.
I'd rather not have kids until I have my career more sorted out, yet my SO wants kids before a certain age. It gives me some time, but having a deadline sure sucks.
Any hope to you guys is that my uncle and aunt (brother and sister) were both single until their 40's. Now in their mid-50's they are both happily married and enjoying life. Only downside is if you want kids, but women are having those later and later now with modern medicine.
chins up