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Originally Posted by PK-EK
I've been talking to her for 4 months now.
I made it very clear from the start that i was interested in her. she made it very clear that she wasn't looking for a relationship.
We stopped talking for a little while and one day she messages me again
(yes, I know she just wanted attention)
But she says that She can't just stop talking to me because I shared so many personal things with her. (at this point on, i knew i was kinda fucked)
so now it drives me crazy.
I have this obligation to talk to her everyday when i know I really shouldn't.
I need to move on from her. but with the way things are going, i don't have the heart to just stop talking to her. It would make her so sad that she would be loosing a friend.
I'd do anything to make her happy. she is very important to me.
how long do you think before I tear myself up inside?
Yes, I know. I'm a fucking idiot and i should of just walked away and moved on.
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Originally Posted by PK-EK
I know i'm being fucking stupid here.
but I'm just kinda waiting for the day she realises that "I'm a great guy"
and waiting for the day she falls for me.
*Give me a fucking break. I'm not a teenager anymore. I should really fucking live in reality and not in the movies*
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I don't know the specifics of your situation. Nor do I know all of the specifics of my friend's situation, but a friend of mine chased this girl from gr.10 onwards. Turned down repeatedly but finally was given a chance. They've been together ever since (grad class of 2008)
I'm not saying that sort of thing will happen, but you gotta decide for yourself. Do you put yourself as #1, or do you put her as #2 and do her bidding because it makes her happy, even tho it sounds like its killing you inside.
Either way, hang in there, you'll figure out something.