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Originally Posted by Akinari
.......... perhaps I'm just not understanding your efforts to try and connect with me on a more emotional level, or maybe I'm not opening myself up enough to you? Perhaps we're simply not meant to be? Is it still the stupid language barrier? Vastly different family values and personal values as well?...........
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Both of you need to understand the concept of the 5 love Languages
Its a good book (just ignore the Jesus is great part)
We all have a Primary Love Language, and that is the one we use and receive love the best in.
If your partner knows how to speak your unique love language then it makes you feel much more loved. and if you understand their love language then you will understand how much they love you.
My primary language is Acts of Service. So if someone was do say something like: "Hey, I know you've been really busy with work tonight, so I'll come over and bring you your favourite dinner and we can eat it at the office while you work" That would make me feel more loved then a million words of "I love you"
If your Primary is Quality time. It would be something as simple as giving your S/O one day in a week to go on a date. and spend time with each other one on one.
Figure out what both of your languages are and see how it works.
I've watched your relationship grow, and i would hate to see it die.
Cheers
here is the exam if anyone was to know what their Langauge is
https://www.iacac.org/wp-content/upl...-Languages.pdf