[Hondaracer]

People in those types of situations get in over their heads so quick they don't know what to do then try and get compassion from some sob story.

Honestly if you're not a drug addict and willing to work, you might have to start back at square one if that's what it takes. And if that means moving back in with your parents when you're 40, renting a "room" in abotsford for a place to live, not having a car and taking transit etc. you may have to make every sacrifice you can to get back on your feet.

I know a few people I grew up with, have basically zero skills, don't work a full-time job, and have zero in terms of investments and savings yet post their Instagram selfies from kits renting an apartment with 4 other losers. If you want to get ahead you need to reevaluate your situation and make the proper adjustments. Instead of living in kits and hanging out on patios, you should probably be in some basement suite in cloverdale, staying in and building a financial buffer.

But what are ya gonna do, people turn 40 and realize they're fucked.