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I'm about as smooth of talker in these situations as I am when picking up women. This reminds me of the time (Which i'd like to forget, but lets hash this one open one more time) one of my very close friends had one of his ex girlfriends tragically drown in a hot tub. If I remember correctly; he told me the news and after a few moments of silence, the first words of out my mouth were "I guess they don't float." (She had 1990's Pornstar oversized fake breasts).

Insensitive? Most likely, but we did have a quick chuckle before settling back to reality. Everyone copes with things differently. I don't think the poster mentioning No.5 was doing anything other then trying to console a hurt individual. Probably not that smart if you don't know them though.

Honestly though, it's sad to hear someone you loved so much had to leave so early. In this day and age having a marriage last a decade, never mind 3+ is no small feat. It is heart breaking to hear a relationship like that can end so suddenly.

I will let you know Mr. MG1. I cherish my GF. My soon to be fiancé (you guys keep secrets right?) but I will take extra care to tend to her needs. The ones that really deserve the attention probably don't get enough of it.

Time will heal. Your loss was not that long ago. Keep strong. I'm sure she wouldn't want it any other way.