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Old 07-17-2017, 10:33 PM   #22994
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Originally Posted by threezero View Post
avoid the long conversation on text msgs until you have tapped. Too much of convo before the actually deed will just push you further and further into friend zone. If the girl you are interested in is decent, there will be many guys trying to do the same thing as you, you are just making yourself another notification on her phone. You want to be the guy she looks forward to seeing and to find out more about, you want to be the guy she wait anxiously to get a text from not the 1 of the many guys she chat to about what happen on HER favorite tv shows.

I am saying this assuming that you haven't tap it yet and havn't form a bond beyond being friends.

Don't go shopping for decoration for her apartment without her, you are NOT her bf yet. If you wants to get decoration for her place, make it a mini date and go together. always make things a team effort especially at this stage.

Every text conversation at this point should be with the purpose to get her out on a date. The face to face meeting is where you do the wooing. Too busy? That fine don't text her until you know you can make a plan to see her. Keep the chit chat to a minimal.

The bond will come but right now you are doing the classic pussy on pedestal move, its hard not too when you haven't been dating much.

until she further her relationship with you, remember these are the people that chit chat with unattached girls all day: her girl FRIENDS, her guy FRIENDS, her god BROTHERS, her COUSINS

don't do it unless you want to be one of the above to her
This is really good advice!

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