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Originally Posted by threezero
Good to see things working out 
For future reference, its easier to get a "date" from a girl without actually mentioning that its a date. Your are making it way to formal  At this stage you shouldn't be bringing her to expensive place to wine and dine yet anyways.
Just ask to see her again and just imply that you would like to spent more time together next time around.
You can turn it into a date when she actually come out. When she has less expectation you have an advantage.
Insisting on a date can really pressure the girl into mentally forcing herself to decided right away if she likes you. The resulting could be very polarizing.
You are also setting yourself up with imaginary "date quality" standards that you will undoubtedly be judged on later down the road.
Just take it easy, make her laugh, escalate gently with physical contact. Have a good time. |
I just simply said I do enjoy your company and would like to go on a food date to spend more time and get to know you on a greater level.
I tried to indirectly get to the same point by asking 'what is your schedule like next week', indirect imply I want to ask her out. But she ignored that question, so kinda had to find another way to ask her again, which ended being the "direct" way.
At our age, we are both grown adults, both don't want to waste time. I figured just be assertive and direct to the point (shows I ain't screwing around). I don't plan to bring her to a nice place, just casual place to enjoy good time with each others company.