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Originally Posted by Traum
Damn...?! Is being a gentleman out of fashion nowadays? Back when I was in the dating scene, it has always been a winning move for me. More than a few girls were totally and genuinely blown away when I pulled the move on them. The rest at least appreciated it. It really helped set the tone for the rest of the evening.
I guess chivalry really is dead...?
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Originally Posted by Inaii
Lol being courteous makes you a bitch? Ahhh kids these days.
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I used to do this for a girl I was seeing a while ago. She liked it at first, but as I did more, she got a bit annoyed. Eventually we started poking fun and race for the passenger side door, LOL.
It's probably like the others said about how girls are more independent nowadays. Doing that once in a while is fine, but don't do it too often.
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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS
What do you guys think about this? My friends see it as her being forward - wants the d. But I think she's calling me out for being thirsty af LMAO
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That's a lot of "haha"s...
YMMV but in my experience, girls use" haha" a lot when things get a bit awkward.
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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS
I wouldn't sweat it, maybe she was busy and saw your text and forgot to reply. I've come to terms of not sending too many texts (unless it's a meaningful conversation), generally from what I heard 1-3 texts and then wait. For this girl that I went out with, initially my response time was about 2 hrs each, then she gave me her number, and I waited a bit before texting her.
I told myself I'm tired of these mind games, but like it seems to be what works. Personally I just didn't want to come off as not having a life and being on my phone all day.
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I can just talk to her in person a bit on weekdays so no problems. It's just that she's busy on weekdays and I don't particularly like being an asshole and holding up a line in Timmy's just because I am talking to a girl I like.
In my case, I am the one who gave her the number. She didn't text me until the second night. It sounds silly, but once I figured out how her schedule works, it's understandable.
I am with you. There are some general rules/guidelines I follow, but I try not thinking too hard about it.