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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS
So I've come to terms with having to define the relationship before we do anything else / I go crazy.
On another note, she's moving this next week, so naturally I'd offer to help her. But do I bring up the defining topic before or after I help her.
I think it's unlikely I'd help her if there's no chance of a future LOL. Not looking to bait myself again, tho that's what it's starting to look like.
This situation reminds me so much of my past fml.
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If you have to "define" your relationship, you've already done it wrong. Here's how it is: if you have to talk to her about it to give her a choice, ball's in her court, she wears the pants.
What you should have done, instead of questioning, is show some physical contact, blaze up with her when she asked you if you're down. Be agreeable. Plan ahead and if you needed 12 hours to sober up, do it on a day you know you have the next day off.
I don't think it's up to you anymore to make a decision on whether you get to be with her or not.
Lastly, if you offered to help her already, fuckin' do it and be a man of your word. Suck it up. Don't think too deeply on your relationship and have fun while you're moving, maybe show her you aren't a stiff.