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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS
So I've come to terms with having to define the relationship before we do anything else / I go crazy.
On another note, she's moving this next week, so naturally I'd offer to help her. But do I bring up the defining topic before or after I help her.
I think it's unlikely I'd help her if there's no chance of a future LOL. Not looking to bait myself again, tho that's what it's starting to look like.
This situation reminds me so much of my past fml.
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I suggest you help her move as planned. I think that's a great opportunity to bring you two together. Talk as you work. Make the conversation more personal as the move progresses. Throw a joke out there once in a while to lighten the mood. Notice her reactions and play accordingly.
Then when the move is all over, you both toke hard af and then talk some more. Find out if that hard work you two put in together built a foundation for a potential relationship.