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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS
So I've come to terms with having to define the relationship before we do anything else / I go crazy.
On another note, she's moving this next week, so naturally I'd offer to help her. But do I bring up the defining topic before or after I help her.
I think it's unlikely I'd help her if there's no chance of a future LOL. Not looking to bait myself again, tho that's what it's starting to look like.
This situation reminds me so much of my past fml.
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IMO you should definitely get it straightened out before you help her move. If you're in the friendzone now, you'll never get out and you're gonna get used. She'll be like oh you're so nice, but she'll always just see you as a nice friend. You gotta make your moves in person and not over the phone. There's too many variables and it give her too much time to think and play games. In person it's either yes or you move on.