I think ZN6 and I are on the same page. The only issue I have with her is that she wants to get high all the time. And that's what I don't want to do, while other people have mentioned that I should just pick a day when i don't have work the next day, I don't have time to just fuck around.
For example, instead of getting high and doing nothing for 12 hours, I'd rather go work on my car, detail my car, and go for a cruise. (Though I can do all that stuff high as well, except for drive). Honestly, despite what people around my age are known to be doing, I'd much rather not go out and club/drink. My life really revolves around meeting up with my friends doing car stuff.
She did mention that she recognizes that its starting to have a negative effect on her life, and she's trying to quit