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Originally Posted by Akinari
Can I get a consensus here?
When she blames you when she gets in trouble with her parents because of something you're doing, yet you're completely unaware of what you're doing and she sort of refuses to tell you what you're doing?
You've made it very clear that your parents are sexist and favour your two brothers over you and treat them differently. So it's alright when your brothers do certain things and your parents turn a blind eye, yet when I do the same shit you blow up on me and your parents shit on me? Familial double standards much?
It's unfortunate, but I'm starting to see and understand that this isn't getting anywhere.
The older I get, the more I start to realize the importance of having similar family values.
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My brother is the golden child......He could get away with murder and my parents would pay the legal fees lol. Im female - my parents were more on my ass............until i told them *politely and repeatedly* to fuck off. Lol. Its your chicks job to assert her individuality with her parents. She shouldn't be blaming you, she should be fighting for her own equality in their eyes. Shes projecting her family problems onto you because shes afraid to take it out on her parents.
I also had a best friend where i was in the same position as you. Her parents hated me b/c she paid more attention to me and they always talked shit about me yet i watched over her, SAVED HER FROM HER OWN SUICIDE BECAUSE SHE LEFT A GOODBYE VOICEMAIL.......my parents even paid for her vacations when she was with us and my mom would pick her up and drive her home even late at night.
Long story short, if she cant grow the balls to stand up to her own parents, youll always get shit on. Get out while you can.
Guess who the mom blamed when the cops came to rescue my (ex)friend from killing herself? ........me LOL.