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Originally Posted by lambo76
Started a job and its been a month and I got sick and started coughing, I got my co workers sick too and 3 of co workers always says its all your fault . What can I do about it, yea I got sick but its out of my control . I guess it spread to them and they are coughing and once in while get the its all your fault.
What do you guys think
Also get harassed at work like my trainer would joke around saying oh today your last day, get your box ready, those jokes and this was before I got sick too
Oh hell make fun of your shirt saying its for girls even though I got it from mens section, what can you do when hes got higher postion than you and your new. Hes not my manager but still
What some witty comeback I can say back if the he says its qll your fault. He always says that regarding my cough and says it all time even when I dont cough.
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Here's the problem with you.
You're worry too much about what people think about you. You worry about judgment. You worry about criticisms. You worry about blame. Your worry about feeling guilty. You worry about all the useless shit that doesn't matter.
Because you're always so worried, you lack the time to think of a solution to deal with it.
There is a saying, treat others how they treat you. From time to time, you can also make comment to your boss about his fashion. If his shoes are old, just go "you could really use a new pair of shoes." Or be like, "whoa, those shoes are old, are you too broke to buy new ones?"
Threatening or hinting that an employee is about to be fired is actually pretty serious in a lot of companies. If this really bothers you, you should consider seeing your manager or human resource.
As for your co-worker. The next time they do something wrong, just go "it's all your fault". If they did something to mess you up at work, say "it's all your fault". These people like to make you feel guilty, and in return, do the same, even when their fault has nothing to do with you. If it happened in the morning, bring it up in the afternoon, bring it up at lunch, bring it up when people are around. Be like "holy shit, you really fucked [soandso] up this morning eh? How the hell did you do that? I mean, it's not hard to NOT fuck up".
If you approach to deal with these behaviors, do it in a sarcastic way. It lessens the tension and usually won't get you into trouble.