Just think it's hilarious because I'm Christian but I'm not here for church talk.
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Originally Posted by nns
I'd consider myself already bettering myself. I've worked out for 8+ yrs. I've created a small bucket list of things that I wanted to do but used to think were difficult. Things like baking, shooting, climbing, hiking, photography. All that shit..it doesn't keep me company when I want to have a connection with someone.
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Good for you man, look at all the skills you got, that's amazing. I am literally on the same path as you.
-online dating, been there done that.
-job and career and friends all in line
-tons of hobbies: dancing, cycling, + shit load of toys
-from introvert to extro and able to hold my own.
So what I'm trying to say is this
1) Enjoy being single: I'm so happy I did not settle or get married to ANY ONE of my X. It would have been REALLY REALLY bad. Me bending over backwards for a girl, spending all my money on them when they didn't appreciate it.
2) RESCUE your fellow buddies: Use your time and talk to all the other married couple. There are so many dudes who would love their own guy time. If you are single and able, go reach out for a boys night.
3) Keep waiting: There is a reason. If you believe in a higher being/ karma / God / universe. Just understand it's no DIFFERENT than why you didn't get the job 5 yrs ago, or broken up with your 2nd gf from 9 yrs ago who was a nagging bitch. Everything happens for a reason, you'll look back and be glad you're single now.
I was in your shoes for many yrs; came back from vacation and met a LOT of girls. Turns out it's really just Vancouver and the mentality. A lot of girls were all over me (complimented on my hobbies, maturity and just being a gentleman); made me realize there ARE normal girls out there who are available and dying to meet someone like you.
It's a waiting game... keep at it.