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I have been there man, My current GF I have been dating for over 8 years, her parents are old school Chinese culture. I am white as fuck. When we first started dating I did not make 100k a year, doctor or own 5 houses. And I am 4 times the size of her parents. They wanted nothing to do with me cause I was white and just another white guy u know. As the years went on I made better money every year invested my money and got a pretty decent job. Its almost like you have to hit a check list for these Asian cultures or something. But the whole time this was going on, I told myself they are missing out cause I am good person and they are missing the opportunity to know me and get to know me as a person. I actually know a big portion of the Victoria Chinese population and have donated time with them ect. They blew me off at the start so I don't care anymore and they have missed the boat to get to know me and share my life with them. Yeah it does suck I do not go over for dinners or go golfing but my family had brought my GF into the family so it does not matter. Life is short dude and am not going to let someone or someone's parents dictate who I spend the rest of my life with
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