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Originally Posted by ZN6
What did you learn from those conversations? generally, it's something that the ghostee does that triggers the ghoster to ghost.
come on too strong?
nothing interesting to talk about?
well, you're better off without them anyways, move on and put a stronger foot forward next time. like, don't let the conversation go on too long before asking the person out for like a lunch or coffee or something. that will show that you have a bit of courage and balls rather than playing text tennis.
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Did exactly that, trying to keep the conversation from dragging out by asking a few honest questions, offered to meet for coffee after maybe half a dozen back and forths, cuts things off without warning. Before I kept from being so forward, it led to boring-ass exchanges before losing interest.
I can't win.