[Akinari]

Originally Posted by MSREE

When me and my hubs were getting to know each other, we had scheduled a date a month after we initially connected online. During that month, he tried to keep in contact with me fairly regularly and I was horrible at it.
Id message him back usually super late when I got home from work cuz I was working at the club and mid convos id fall asleep, so Id disappear until the next day and he was always left hanging lol.

I was interested but not so much I checked for him every hour. I did give explanations for my shotty contact skills though lol.

Personally, i know lots of girls, when theyre single just focus on work, eating and sleeping then repeat the next day.

Dating requires a certain energy, courting stage even more so. Could be shes responding when she can/has the energy for it. Doesnt necessarily signal disinterest since you dont know yet what her day to day responsibilities are

Thanks! Basically the same response I’ve received from my two other close female friends who I’ve inquired about the same thing. Especially her being a student and finals seasons and telling me she works basically everyday so, I can definitely see that being draining, I’ve been there done that.

It was just pretty surprising she would suggest we go do something together that we’ve talked about even though I’ve never asked so that was nice.