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Originally Posted by MSREE
I myself wouldnt make plans for another hang out until the first is over with so i think her invitation is a good sign, sounds like she's into it 
When is coffee scheduled for? |
The challenging thing is even if I reply to her message a 1-2 minutes after she sends me a message, she won't reply for another day or two, so setting things up is difficult.
The most challenging thing is asking if she's at work today (even though she has said she basically works everyday) and seeing if I could drop by and look at some clothes (which I actually need to do, would be nice if she got the commission too), but then she doesn't respond until a day or two later.
I did walk into the store to browse clothes myself yesterday, also to see if she was there but she wasn't, but it's pretty creepy for me to constantly walk in to see if she's there, also I can't be bothered because the store I work at is at the opposite end of the mall so...
I don't really wanna agonize over this, it's really just a matter of asking her when she's free for coffee, or asking her if she wants to check out a cafe I've been meaning to visit with me, but I don't really wanna do it electronically given her reluctance to reply, especially since we've had good albeit brief conversations face-to-face.
So really, at the end of the day, since she's already said yes to coffee, it's just a matter of setting a time with her in-person, but I'm struggling because I don't want to make it seem like I'm desperate or creepy in any way shape or form by constantly walking into her store to see if she's there, which I'm not at all, but there's still a bit of self-consciousness required in situations like this.
It's my first time doing something like this so, this is a learning experience for me.
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Originally Posted by MSREE
Do guys still pay for dates nowadays? Or is the dating culture now more independent/go dutch type of style?
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Depends. I've experienced it all three ways: go dutch, girl pays, or I pay. The actual paying part doesn't matter as much as his/her attitude towards it.