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Originally Posted by PK-EK
Let me play the Devil's Advocate here and stir up some conversation.
How old are you? how old was the girl?
What kind of tone did you use when you spoke to her in the 2.5 hours?
What did you tell her?
Did you tell her about your travels? Where did you travel too?
COuld it be that when you spoke to her; you gave her the vibe that you're not really mature.
example: going to Las Vegas for an EDM event Vs. Going to Las Vegas for work
Did you tell her about your car before hand?
how did you word it? "yeah, My Subaru is modified with a Invida stage 3 exhaust!" Vs. "Yeah, My car is this old loud modified thing. sorry about that"
Its natural for a women to look for an "Older" - they want a protector, and generally, someone older is more protective.
Especially for a girl that was sheltered her entire life and an only child. this makes perfect sense
Its not about the hand you were given, its all about how you play it.
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Girl is 30 and I'm older by a year. Right from the get go her tone is "serious" attitude, like the type that can't really take humor; whereas, I am more open with humor. There is no right or wrong, each to their own. I am serious when it's serious matter and kid around when it's play time. No need to tell her of my car prior since a car shouldn't be a reason why someone is interested in you lol. Maybe I'm being unrealistic? She's never dated in her life ever; hence, I don't know how she "thinks" she wants someone older when she don't have a baseline to work from. Eg. if she had prior relationships where the guy can't provide or immature, then the reason is reasonable. End of the day, no loss from my end.