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Originally Posted by 6793026
my x gf now and I collapsed because she wanted a wedding and for me to pay for it. Love her lots but I ain't able to fulfill her with her ideal wedding. Wedding is a partnership and 2 people will require to contribute, sad to say if the gf ain't goign to contribute / help out / see the wedding as something we both need to chip in, it's best to just part ways.
Lastly, I'm not going to sell my apartment nor goign to ask my family for money to get married; just not economical and not the way to go. Remember, we should all live within our means (paying for wedding is a big one)
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No offence to your ex, but me thinks her request / behaviour is indicative of how she would likely have continued to behave had the 2 of you gotten married -- instead of sharing the costs / burdens / responsibilities, she is going to expect you to step up and bear it all.
So IMO, you're better off bailing / breaking it off -- I'd even go as far as saying that you've dodge a bullet, really. At the same time, I hope the girl had learned something from the relationship as well.