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Originally Posted by 6793026
sorry to thread jack; happy for you being able to work thru
my x gf now and I collapsed because she wanted a wedding and for me to pay for it. Love her lots but I ain't able to fulfill her with her ideal wedding. Wedding is a partnership and 2 people will require to contribute, sad to say if the gf ain't goign to contribute / help out / see the wedding as something we both need to chip in, it's best to just part ways.
Lastly, I'm not going to sell my apartment nor goign to ask my family for money to get married; just not economical and not the way to go. Remember, we should all live within our means (paying for wedding is a big one)
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i'm sorry to hear that but honestly you are better off.
weddings truly don't mean anything. i've seen people spend thousands on a wedding only to get divorced anyway.
a lot of women don't seem to remember/care that the wedding industry is just a business and it's not indicative of a couple's love/strength to withstand hardships. even engagement rings.... it doesn't need to be a multi carat diamond to prove you guys are solid.
my partner and i are in talks of getting married and for both us, elopement then just having a simple bbq/dinner when we get back to celebrate with family and friends is enough.
you just need to find someone who has the same values as you
