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Originally Posted by instantneedles
Have any of you dated anyone you weren't physically attracted to right away, but gave it a try anyway and have it succeed?
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A lot of girls are like that. 9/10 times, they aren't attracted cause "he ain't my type" and then after we pursue them a few times, they get to know us a bit more, we grow on them. They start to realize there's a lot more on the inside and looks is just the first 10%.
I on the other hand, live by this rule, cute girl are usually no substance and they are used to dude giving it all to them; I date girls who aren't getting too much attention and they fall super hard for you.
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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS
We didn't make to 1 year, evidently above. But the past 11 months or so, have been fine. It wasn't great, we fought, but which couples don't fight? If the above events didn't happen, I'd still be happily together with her right now.
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yup, my last gf was the same, it was easy at first 10 months, but when it came down to the critical events or some bigger decisions, it didn't work. I now realized the day to day stuff is importance, but one still need to know how to work thru the mission critical stuff.
Love my X to pieces, but I wasn't "giving enough" to her, I didn't buy her the nice things, I wasn't able to provide by giving her a big massive wedding. I left in peace so she can go chase after a guy who can give her the monetary stuff (which translates to "love"); guess it won't be me.