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Old 01-17-2020, 07:18 PM   #24658
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Personalities do matter, but you still want to be attracted to a person. If there is someone that wants to support you, I would give them a chance. Attractiveness is highly subjective, and a person can definitely grow on you because of their other traits.
Well, I think physical attractiveness is arguably pretty objective and is something that is largely influenced by cultural norms. It's pretty fair to say that if you find a girl attractive, chances are, the guy across the room probably does too. That's male competition, and there's nothing that can change that.

However, I find that as I get older and becoming more career and family oriented, those other traits are starting to grab my attention just as much as attractiveness.

What I can't stand, are girls who are both unattractive AND unsupportive. That's when I back the fuck off.
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