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Originally Posted by yameen
Sorry to hear that bro. I truly believe things will get better when you least expect it. I had been through 3 longterm-ish relationships from dating apps which made me give up hope but I recently found someone on a dating app when i least expected it. I didnt expect anything from the most recent one but everything clicked into place and I strongly believe she's someone i plan to marry one day. We laugh about everything and we have almost identical values. We both want same amount of kids and share activities together despite them being different. I havent felt this way about anyone since my first love and when we first connected I didnt think this would happen. I hope my positive story can instill some hope in you.
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Yeah, that was this girl. I met her out of the blue. I posted up on my IG if anyone wanted to cruise and she showed up. I wasn't expecting anything, esp cause at that point I was a couple months fresh from a really bad breakup. But we just clicked, conversations flowed smoothly, and we got along well. We communicate well with each other and values align as well. I hadn't felt that way about anyone since the last person I had a complicated (but worth it) relationship with. This feels like a repeat of last time.
I think it sucks that I also lose a friend from this. I'm not too worried about not having enough friends, but we're going to go from telling each other everything and talking everyday to nothing at all. On the flip side, I know that I can't be friends with her cause it'll fuck me up.