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Originally Posted by yameen
I'm not rich nor do I have a fancy car. I have my own place with a decent job and can spend on food and activities freely. I dont look like brad pitt but I've never had trouble with girls because I always have good chats with most of them. I feel like I shouldn't be picky but I am.
Like what most posters said, your conversations need to have substance but what separates a girl that you might have a connection with versus a girl you absolutely get entrenched in a conversation with and lose track of time will sometimes indicate how compatible you two are. Some people are intrinsically shy and might take a bit longer to warm up or break out of their shell so those are a bit trickier.
From online dating I've had two that lasted about a year each and the rest I lost interest in over time. This current one feels like someone I could marry one day. Fingers crossed!
Bonus tip that always worked well for me: walk them to their car after the date and open their car door for them (some of you might disagree but it has always been well received). Be kind and say thank you to your servers. Girls love it when you're kind towards others.
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Hope things work out! It's always motivating to hear when people are able to succeed with online dating.
One of my friends has never been in a relationship before and decided to try online dating in his late 20's. Fastforward to now and he's 1 year into his relationship.
I think online dating does work - you just have to work at it like everyone has suggested.