Almost everyone I knew getting married in the past 5 years pre-COVID was doing so overseas as a destination wedding or they/partner live somewhere else.
LOL fuck that, on top of having to fork over 5K (as a couple) for the flight/accommodations and take a week or more of my precious vacation time you still expect me to subsidize your party/honeymoon with more money. Yeah sorry.
A few years back I seriously considered going to my good friend's week long wedding in Bali but after considering I hardly knew anyone else who was going I couldn't be bothered and took the money I was going to spend and went on a 2 week vacation by myself
