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I don’t do weddings if they’re more than a 4-hour drive away and that’s if it’s a really good friend or a close relative, otherwise it’s a 2-hour drive tops.
It pisses me off when people get offended because you RSVP no to their destination wedding in Australia, Hawaii, or Thailand.
Like 15 years ago I RSVPed yes to one of my good friend’s destination wedding like over a year in advance and then ended up getting really sick and going on medical EI then welfare for about 2 years. Obviously I could no longer afford to go and he was not having any of it. We’ve barely spoken since where we used to hang out at least once a week and I vowed to basically never go to weddings at all. I ended up softening my stance several years ago but, like I said above, I’m not doing it if it’s not within driving distance.
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