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Originally Posted by Traum
I'm sure you understand this already, but it is worth repeating -- when there is someone in your life that you feel responsible for -- whether it is your elderly parents, a seriously ill partner, an autistic dependent, or just a child -- they becoming consuming to quite an extent. So much so that the person might just not have any time for other things, or even time for themselves.
And then I thought of the following scenes from "Love Actually", because it is just exactly like that..
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Oh I'm aware of that and that's why I've been generous in waiting. She doesn't even live far from me. Hell, I offered to meet her close to her place and just talk / embrace for 15 min and then I'll leave. She loved that idea and it has yet to transpire so...
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Originally Posted by Euro7r
She's hustle and grinding to provide for her family (just little to no time for much personal time). Don't think she's intentionally being "dry" with the conversations, considering prior you guys were quite active in the communication. It ultimately starts with communication in terms of what you are expecting or trying to achieve between you and her. Even in midst of how busy she is, there's gotta be some personal time somewhere for you both.
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It's the little 'in between things'
Like when I send her a morning message and it takes her 4 hours to reply...
...yet she's been on WhatsApp MULTIPLE times within that 4 hour window. I don't think about it much but sometimes I do ask specific questions and it seems like an ignore (she's not actually reading the convo but she's definitely been on the app)
Or this is a normal thing that people do? I just thought I'd be given a bit more attention given our history. I don't even like texting to be honest but despite asking to see her in person again, it gets pushed and pushed. I mean, how long can a man wait?
Or did the Internet really ruin people's ability to communicate and connect?