[winson604]

Originally Posted by Eff-1

If you asked me 2 years ago what I thought about kids, I'd echo a lot of people here. There is nothing better than a double income no kids lifestyle.

But eventually something changed. My wife and I both realized something was missing. The idea of sharing our life with someone and raising a child suddenly appealed to us. So now she is 8.5 months pregnant. It's terrifying and exciting all at the same time.

And for what it's worth, all of our good friends have kids too, so our lifestyles align. It's challenging when there is a mismatch.

It wasn't an easy decision. But one I don't regret. Maybe ask me again in 3 months haha.

Financially, it definitely changes things. We can't afford a house but we really love our 2 BR/2 BA condo. But eventually we'll need more space and have to find a place with 1 or 2 more rooms. The market is insane and we don't look forward to when that day comes. However, I think it would be a shame if people who otherwise wanted kids chose not to because of the housing market here. I don't doubt that happens a lot though. This city is fucked up in so many ways.

Congrats! You'll love it and things will eventually work out.