Unwind time? What the hell is that?
I would say it depends on your household. In our household, keeping the floors clean is priority so we vacuum daily mostly because 3 females and their damn hair shedding and my oldest loves to move around at the dining table so her peripheral area always has food droppings. We don't formally mop often enough since there's always crap around but will do spot wipes with the wet Swiffer on the regular. I probably don't notice it anymore but I tend to do spot cleaning while doing other things instead of one big clean so it doesn't seem as much as a chore.
With toys don't worry too much about them. It's just disorganization and not "dirty". Unless you have a dedicated toy room just get a bunch of storage bins and dump them in. We make a habit to have our oldest put away toys before she goes to bed.
I imagine all of you have dishwashers though so screw you all.