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Originally Posted by Hondaracer
I’ve also known people who basically outright refused help from parents/family because they knew they were going to hold it over their heads going forward. If that’s the type of parent you’re gonna be, sorry but you’re a POS.
This is borderline like cult/religious thought process, original sin etc. we suffered for you therefor you must suffer as well. It’s disgusting
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My ex's parents are exactly like that. While still together they offered to give money for a down payment so we can buy a house in Vancouver (when it was still around $1mil) when they knew I didn't have the money nor did my parents. I outright refused which led to arguments between us 2. On the other hand my buddy thought the opposite and accepted a similar offer from his wifes mom. Now married with 2 girls he's paying dearly for it everyday being emasculated by the MIL.