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Originally Posted by 6793026
sorry, no matter what age, MAN THE FUCK UP. Esp. when you're married. You are apart of your family.
Eg// Wife says A, you agree with A.
Wife has rule B for your kids, and your mom says rule A, you MAN THE FUCK UP and say "No one knows better than the mother of the child on what is best".
At a certain stage in life, one should be able to discern over your parents and tell them to F off and keep their input to themselves.
I have earned my respect and place. If you ain't got nothing positive to say or constructive, don't you dare to drag me down.
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I feel like this mentality is unnecessarily aggressive. Asian parents are they way they are because of their culture and experience. Our generation is educated and informed enough to understand they mean well, they just don't have the communication skills to communicate with us properly.
To disrespect them and tell them to F off, is definitely not something my friend would ever do, myself included.
To think you or me or anyone knows what they're doing in life is false. Everyone can learn something from everyone. Just because we don't typically agree with our parents generation, that doesn't mean we can't learn from them.