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Honestly... I also accepted from my parents, but I've paid them back 3 fold. how? Paid they for food, paid them rent even when I moved out. It's a circle of love. They helped you, you help them.
The ONLYYYYY time when I'll refuse money is when they will hold it over my head.
eg// 1 million dollar house.
"hey So in Law, i know you are getting married, why i don't give you some money so we can also live in it" FFFFFFFFFF nooooo
I never want them to hold it over my head where "I HELPED PAY for this house" when they only contributed 1% of 10% etc.
Just cause we have a basement for YOU to live in as you're aging, it does not mean YOU own the house now and you can invite your friends over etc.
i never want someone to hold it over my head on how they own it and demand their own key.
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