[Badhobz]

Originally Posted by PeanutButter

He's definitely not a doormat. He's a very calculated person.

Also, why would he care if someone is boning his ex-gf? Out of the two of them, he's definitely the prize. She's only getting older and her value is going down. My guy is only getting better and his stock is going up. The only negative to his situation is that it took him two years to actually call it quits.

It's okay to have compassion and empathy for other people. If he wants to be the "nice" guy, I don't see a problem with it. He doesn't have a lack mentality. He knows he's moving onto bigger and better things. I think people need to shift their mindset from your line of thinking and look at the opportunity he has now.

He's free as a bird. His life is only going to get better. He's a 35 y.o single good looking man who makes close to $150k a year and his income will continue to increase. If you have to pick a winner, it's most definitely him. Without question.