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My bro,
The problem is you’re being influenced by others on how your life “should be”.
Instead of what it is and what you already made of it.
Let me explain, And this is comparable to Plato’s allegory of the cave (omg my fucking philosophy degree actually is poignant for once) all you’ve been focusing is on the “world of forms” that is presented to you. The reality is your life is what you make of it. You can choose to be in this rut and let your success be defined by this unrealistic social media standard or you can say FUCK THIS. I’m an individual. I make my own definitions of success and the only master you need to honour is yourself.
My bro you are so fucking far ahead of most people your age that you’ve already lapped a few of them. Hell there are people who are twice your age and cannot achieve we you have achieved.
Facts:
You own a single detached house in the GVRD. I was living with my parents at your age.
You drove bmws and m3s and now CTRs when I was driving Sentra XEs and fighting buddy guy at KFC’s.
You have enough disposable income that you can afford a car hobby and go to track days. Like real fucking track days where a normal weekend is basically minimum 1000 bucks gone.
I think you need to give yourself a break and celebrate your achievements instead of focusing on what you’ve missed. You got time to make mistakes. You got time to retool and and change course if you find your current employment unfulfilling. Same with relationships.
Don’t be too scared to take risks. Even if it doesn’t pander out, you’re still miles ahead. Just plan accordingly though and stop using social media as a foil of success.
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